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Having a Divorce Party Helped Me Heal – Here’s Why You Should Try It, Too

[caption id="attachment_63463" align="aligncenter" width="482"]Divorce Party Heal Latina Moms Photo courtesy of Latina Moms.[/caption] As a generation that grew up watching fairy tales where the princess is rescued by the prince, gets married, and lives happily ever after (Disney, I’m looking at you), we are all under the expectation that this is how life should be.  Falling in love and getting married is the ultimate goal in many people’s lives. It’s a promise to one’s happiness.  However, this is far from reality. While I do not want to knock down those happily married couples, the truth is that many marriages wind up in divorce.  When I married my husband, I thought this was the start of a long journey filled with peace and harmony. It was absolutely disheartening when I realized that we were not working out three years down the road.  After spending two years wanting to hang on to each other, it was just doing us more harm than good trying to stay together.  Once the decision was made, I picked up the phone to tell mis comadres that once our divorce was officially finalized, I wanted to celebrate.  Of course, this turned into a “coming of age” divorce party, and now that some time has passed, I realized this was a key factor in helping me heal and move on. 

Mark The Start of a New Chapter 

When you get a divorce, your life completely changes seemingly overnight. You now have no romantic partner and are forced to focus on yourself and your children.  It is difficult to let go of the past and what could have been, but having a divorce party allows you to accept and understand that you are now starting a new chapter of your life.  A divorce party was cathartic because it allowed me to cry, express all my emotions, and, yes, trash the dress. This party reminded me that I had the opportunity to start all over with a clean slate, a blessing not many have. 

Self-Care Became a Priority 

At my divorce party, I received a lot of gifts from my friends. Self-care packages, movies, gift cards - you name it. I had spent so much time feeling lost in my marriage that I had completely lost my identity.  I stopped taking care of myself due to feelings of insufficiency. My loved ones helped me realize that this was a time to learn to love myself again and take care of myself, not only as a mother but also as a woman.  Prioritizing self-care allowed me to heal and truly nurture my mental health so that I could slowly (and graciously) move on. 

Support Through Your Journey 

Some people may think a divorce party is because you are a stingy, angry ex-spouse that just wants to break things and get drunk.  While I do admit the latter was fun and cathartic, there was no better feeling than having the support of my family and friends.  There is nothing like having your loved ones be beside you as you start the next chapter of your life. This stressful and strenuous time requires love and encouragement from friendly faces.  Without that, you will inevitably feel lonely and have a hard time healing from this difficult situation.  In the end, whether you want to celebrate your divorce by smashing a wedding dress shaped piñata or trashing your wedding dress, it is the first step towards your new and improved life. You got this, amiga. 
A new year has begun, and we're all ready to pack A new year has begun, and we're all ready to pack our closets with the latest fashion trends. 2022 will be a year of change for everyone, and fashion will be no exception as we will see the return of some daring styles while maintaining the comfort of life working from home — thank you, COVID 🙄🙄.⠀
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At Latina Moms, we've kicked off the year in the b At Latina Moms, we've kicked off the year in the best possible way: by returning to Hogwarts. Twenty years after the Harry Potter saga conquered our hearts, we’ve enjoyed a new adventure with our children -- and boy, was it worth it! Our favorite characters -- who are now our children's favorites -- have taken us on a trip to the magical world wrapping ourselves in goodies this time as a family. Now streaming on @HBOMax. Did you watch the Return to Hogwarts Special? How did it feel?

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We are already diving into 2022, and it is time to We are already diving into 2022, and it is time to start working on all those resolutions we promised ourselves before the year began. ⠀
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But let's be honest, most resolutions are often forgotten on a piece of paper in some drawer, and that needs to change!⠀
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These simple-but-effective steps will help you stay true to your resolutions!⠀
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Yoga has gained tremendous popularity over the yea Yoga has gained tremendous popularity over the years, especially during the pandemic — it became the meditation method of choice for many. ⠀
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A practice that combines physical exercise with meditation to achieve a greater connection with your body, mind, and soul, perfect to start this year, right? 🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽⠀
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‍Learn about our fav yoga routines to start the year in the link in our bio!⠀
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The best thing about returning to the magical worl The best thing about returning to the magical world of Harry Potter has been being able to enjoy it as a family. We enjoyed our own version of the Sorting Hat at home, and we had a member of each house in our living room! From the bravery of Gryffindor to the loyalty of Hufflepuff and the intelligence of Ravenclaw to the ambition of Slytherin, we have reminisced together about our favorite saga. And you? Which house do you belong to?⠀
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Harry Potter 20th Anniversary: #ReturnToHogwarts is now streaming on @HBOMax. @PalanteHBOMax  #ReturnToHogwarts #PalanteHBOMax #hbomaxpartner
We start 2022 on the right foot with a new lunar c We start 2022 on the right foot with a new lunar cycle that will recharge our energies and push us to achieve our purposes. 🌑⠀
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We’re talking about the New Moon that begins this January 2nd in Capricorn, the sign of discipline.⠀
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Taking spirituality into account can help you star Taking spirituality into account can help you start the New Year with determinations — all you need to do is tweak your spiritual ritual. 🔮⠀
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The beginning of a new year might be a bit confusi The beginning of a new year might be a bit confusing. If you’re like us, you might go through brief panics when you try to determine whether a particular task is part of your daily to-do list or is part of your New Year’s resolutions. ⠀
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